[dar-list] The Easy Way

[katie]

I can't wait 'til this one comes out...
What I love about Dar is that you can really tell the kind of person she 
is through her songs...


I get a feeling that Dar takes nothing for granted and I think that by 
putting her beliefs down in a song she can help so many people.

This song I believe would especially help teens or those new to 'love' 
or love's failure
 There are those out there who could benefit from knowing that what they 
are feeling isn't abnormal and that in the end when they survive through 
those catastrophic disappointments they will come out a stronger person...

"though I went and lived in my own hell
thought that I could die as well
I let him go..."

When she sings this:
"I never took heavy words for granted"

It reminds me how powerful words can be and how people don't think 
before they speak or if they say something really strong like
'if you don't come back I'll'
that they are using those words as weaponry and manipulation.
There is a hard balance between believing what people tell you and 
watching by their
actions what they really mean and who they really are.
Some folks have the sweetest hearts and have never been taught to be 
skeptical.






When she sings:
"I never took the undeserved advantage"
Wow...I just love that...some advantages ARE deserved...
When you work hard at something and because of that
things are going your way...THAT is an advantage that you have earned

It reminds me of February...
You can be in a really good relationship whether it be with a lover or a 
friend or co-worker and if you let the other person do all of the work 
because they want to please you and you allow that and don't put 
anything into it yourself...that relationship will be off-kilter.


I could say a lot more...but that is my take for now...

katie